The exam should not only be about the doctor checking your vitals, but also one where you, the patient, asks questions?  Yes, it is okay to question your doctor no matter what your parents might have told you.  Demand answers!

Choose a physician who will listen to you with something more than just their stethoscope!  There is no "I" in the word Team.  Physicians & Patients need to work together as a Team for the best possible outcome!